It’s the Little things 

Today a very nice thing happened.  As I sat at the desk, crunching numbers, someone stepped to the door and tapped on the frame.  I glanced up and shared a smile with the pleasant young lady framed in the doorway.

She said, “I was nearby for a meeting and couldn’t leave without stopping by to tell you how much I appreciate you.”  She related how much she enjoyed working with me and how helpful and patient I had always been.

Basking in the praise, I responded, “Thank you so much!  I appreciate it, but…. What is your name?”  “Danielle,” she said and memories surfaced.    To be fair, the last time I saw her, she had sported a short blond bob instead of the red hair that now skimmed her shoulders.

For the next five minutes she sang my praises and bestowed far more accolades than I deserved.  I don’t think I ever went out of my way to help her.  I just did my job.

Danielle takes time to say “Thank you” for things most take for granted.

Passing it on…

You’ve Got Mail and oh so much more……

An article landed in my inbox this week.  A man was reminiscing about an old lamp  that sat in the living room of his childhood home.  He held a finial, the decorative top piece that keeps the shade in place, in his hand. A smile bloomed on my face, immediately understanding how he felt.  I’ve stood in antique shops and thrift stores cradling an object in my hand, lost in a cherished memory.

I enjoy my treasures.  As I walk thru my front door I am greeted by an abundance of artifacts.  Artifacts from my husband’s childhood in Yugoslavia rest companionably near my grandfather’s carpenter square.  20151108_111821A picture painted by  Yugoslavian artist, Jovan Obican hangs adjacent to a hand drawn painting of a rooster my sister created for me. 20151108_111805 An antique hand held mixer rests on the kitchen window sill.

These things and many others fill my home with memories.  They make my house a home and ground me in the roots of my heredity.

And then……

Another article popped up in my inbox today.  It proclaimed our houses are filled with things that should be immediately thrown out.  The article touted the danger of  the germs swimming around us. Immediately I envisioned microorganisms crawling through my cabinets, over my floors and on all my possessions.  The article mentioned treasured mementos and things you keep out of guilt.  Their advice?  Toss them!  And extra buttons?  Get rid of them.  You will never use them anyway.

Feeling guilty for enjoying my treasures and more than a little grossed out, I thought about divesting myself of everything except basic essentials.  It really would make it much easier to clean and dust.  And that button box does have tons of one of a kind antique buttons I will never use.    20151109_201039

But I would also give up the comfort of snuggling into my antique wingback chair, 20151109_202553   my grandmother’s handmade quilt across my lap, reading a book discovered in my last thrift store perusal.  No thank you.   I think I’m okay with things just as they are germs, dust and all.

Rainy Days and Halloween……

I decided a few weeks before Halloween to throw a party for my staff.  They love celebrating and most of them enjoy dressing up for Halloween.  I sent an invitation for 2:00 PM Friday, October 30th promising punch, cookies and a costume contest.

Invitation

Immediately I went into hyper mode in an effort to plan the perfect party.  We’d have a variety of Halloween themed punches, the perfect baked, decorated cookies and lots of decorations.

I spent the next couple of weeks making lists and jotting notes.  I searched for the best cookies, polling everyone for opinions.  I surfed the web and combed Pinterest for ghoulish recipes.

Settling on wormy orange punch, witches brew and blood (orange) punch, I purchased cauldrons, ladles, spider webs and more.  On Thursday night, I worked late but still managed to pick up fresh vegetables, fruit and a few other last minute supplies.  I made sure we had enough to feed an army even though I only needed enough for 15 people.  I enlisted help from family, picking up the cookies, baking treats, making dip and putting up with my insanity.

Over the course of the week, I brought supplies and decorations to the office to minimize chaos on Friday.  All of Austin and the surrounding areas woke up to a deluge of rain on Friday, October 30th.  Relieved that most of the party paraphernalia was already stored at my office, we loaded the car with the final touches and began the hour long commute.

Five miles from the house, I realized that the frozen juice cubes for the punch were still in the freezer.  Since the National Weather Center had issued flood warnings, it didn’t seem realistic to return home for ice cubes.  At about mile 10 I discovered the fruit tray and the vegetable tray were also at home in the refrigerator along with the vegetable dip.  No problem.  I would just call my son and see if he would bring it in around lunch.  Surely the sun would be out by then.

At mile 20, the radio informed us that there was a confirmed tornado on the ground about 30 miles away and the rain wasn’t expected to end anytime soon. I wasn’t going to ask anyone to get out in this mess.  No problem.  I’d just walk across the street for frozen fruit to drop in the punch and we could live without the vegetables.

At work, reports of flooding replaced any thoughts of the party while I tried to get in touch with any employees not already at work.  Now I was trying to contact my son to be sure he was paying attention to the rapidly changing weather conditions.

At 8:45 AM, I received an ‘Extreme Alert’ via my phone:

“Tornado Warning in this area til 9:15 AM CDT.  Take shelter now.”

Well, herding hundreds of costumed people down three flights of stairs to the bottom of the parking garage quickly became priority.  We are all fine and the storm passed without significant damage for us and I realized that we had everything we needed.

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When 2:00 PM finally arrived, it was still raining.  The party was fun and everyone was relieved to forget about storms for just a little while.